Who’s your witness?
Your witness can’t be
Self-awareness
Self-reflection
Self …. Whatever else comes to mind
So long you “the self” is involved you are at a disadvantage and here is why:
Have you noticed how fast you grow, change, and become better with an observer; may that be a coach, mentor, friend, family, or supporter?
Someone who sees you beyond you.
And no it’s not about them judging you, providing feedback or any other form of mind tricks…
Their witnessing of you beyond your “self” unravels the self in you that goes beyond you.
It uncovers your potential not learn it. And you know it’s true even if it’s hard to put words to it.
Even a child can be your witness. Parents develop often after they have a child and yes we can rationalize it as responsibility, decision-making, control, etc….
But is it? In that moment you are witnessed you shine without even trying.
Because the self finally gets out of the way!
Until the next ❤️ beat ~.~.~
